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SUMMARY:Youpi ici c'est le titre
NAME:Youpi ici c'est le titre
DESCRIPTION:Un événement autour du vin, c'est pour cela qu'il est à 
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SUMMARY:Yeswikiday
NAME:Yeswikiday
DESCRIPTION:Une journée pour faire avancer le projet Yeswiki dans la 
 bonne humeur \nSource: https://forgecc.org/?YeswikidaY
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UID:https://forgecc.org/?OnlineDatingForBeginners
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SUMMARY:Online Dating For Beginners
NAME:Online Dating For Beginners
DESCRIPTION: Télécharger le fichier istockphoto1091787882612x612.jpg 
 (https://forgecc.org/?api/upload&file=istockphoto1091787882612x612.jpg
 )\n\nWhat 
 started as a fairly marginalized and private concept for the advanced 
 cyber few of the early 90’s has mainstreamed itself now as one of the 
 primary ways to meet your next significant other. The sheer number of 
 books about online dating shows that online dating may not be as simple as
 it seems at first blush. Or at least, enough people seem to think they 
 have discovered the secret trick to finding the perfect person online and 
 want to make lots of money writing a book to lead others in search of the 
 Holy Grail.\n\nAfter all these years, I’m not sure there is a secret 
 trick or a Holy Grail. Relationships are relationships no matter where you
 go, and let’s face it: dating is kind of silly, anyway. I’ve always 
 felt that the key to successful dating is to keep your sense of humor and 
 not take it or yourself too seriously.\n\nFrench Girls For Marriage 
 (https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/France-dating-service.html?g
 ender=female&page=61)\n\nA 
 quick re-cap of the premise of online dating:\n\n•The profile writer 
 says a little bit about themselves and other people take on the role of 
 “code cracker.” Does “quirky” mean “unbearably weird”? Does 
 “I like independent women” mean “I don’t have time for a 
 girlfriend”? Does “Money not important” mean “need sugar mama”? 
 Does “spiritual but not religious” mean “I don’t know what I 
 believe so don’t ask,” or “I am a spiritual guru who has found the 
 new path to enlightenment?”\n\n•The profile reader scans for red flags
 and deal breakers, weighs them against how hot the picture is and 
 depending on their nature uses that information or not in determining to 
 contact the other person.\n\n•The profile writer gets a delightful 
 number of emails in their inbox letting them know that they have 
 discovered a way to online Mecca. If the inbox comes up dry…the writer 
 either re-vamps and tries to determine the offending lines, delights in 
 their individuality or hits Amazon to buy the aforementioned online dating
 advice books.\n\n•A date ensues or at least some hot and heavy cyber 
 communication.\n\n•Enter the old fashioned formulas for regular dating 
 as you have taken it from online to flesh and blood.\n\nI don’t think we
 can apply one set of rules against all personal ads. But these tips can 
 help you figure out if you want to make contact.\n\n1. Look for stock 
 phrases. If an ad contains too many “likes children and puppies, long 
 walks at sunset, etc” watch for possible faker or just extremely boring 
 person whose mom wrote their ad.\n\n2. Watch for language aimed 
 specifically for or against one segment of the population and make sure 
 you are ok with their criteria. Ie. “I like skinny, actress types who 
 want to be stay at home moms and serve as arm candy at my next black tie 
 function. If people tell you that you weigh more wet…you are the girl 
 for me!” Just a guess, but this writer has a thing for unreality and 
 really will want to see if you weigh more wet before asking for another 
 date.\n\n3. Look at the complete picture the person presents. If they list
 a job and hobbies that effectively tie them up every work day and all day 
 Sat and Sunday on the golf course…know that unless you work where they 
 work or play how they play, you are likely to have conflicting schedules 
 at least until that mad love hits and then all bets are off.\n\n4. Ask for
 clarification on things that may seem obvious if you are uncertain about 
 their word usage. Ie. “I must have someone with conservative sexual 
 needs.” This can be taken to mean anything from “I don’t want it 
 very often and when I do, it needs to be of the vanilla variety,” to 
 “I am willing to do anything between two consenting adults but don’t 
 want to share you with anyone else.” Either, both or neither may be 
 acceptable to you but what a bummer if you took it to mean to first when 
 it was really the latter!\n\n5. If the pictures look old (dated styles, 
 baby face look, grainy, scanned picture instead of digital) they probably 
 are old. Buyer beware.\n\n6. Another on pictures…if it looks slightly 
 familiar in that “He’s gorgeous but looks familiar” kind of 
 way…you may be well served to peruse the latest Abercrombie catalogue. 
 If the picture looks professional, you may have a scammer on your hands 
 — so check and double check his story. \nSource: 
 https://forgecc.org/?OnlineDatingForBeginners
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UID:https://forgecc.org/?HeSaidYes
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SUMMARY:He said yes
NAME:He said yes
DESCRIPTION:Public Displays of Affection (https://bit.ly/4iAh4rM)\nSecrets
 for a More Satisfying Relationship (https://bit.ly/4cJoOpU)\nA Note To 
 Guys About Helping Your Date Feel Safe (https://bit.ly/42Kuong)\nAvoid the
 First Date Let Down (https://bit.ly/4iyySn7)\nLetting Go of the Control 
 Freak (https://bit.ly/4ixhb7g)\nKeep It Classy America 
 (https://bit.ly/4iOHdDr)\nHow To Be More Emotionally Low Maintenance 
 (https://bit.ly/3S29BGX)\nI Like Me! (https://bit.ly/4itFT8I)\nWhy Are You
 Still Single? (https://bit.ly/4itFN0Q)\nHow Do You Meet Someone New? 
 (https://bit.ly/3S56OwG)\n\nSo I went away for an overnight with Mr. Big. 
 He had to travel for the week for work and the location was relatively 
 close. We knew we wouldn’t be seeing each other for a while so on an 
 impulse, he asked if maybe I would come up to see him. At first I laughed 
 it off. Actually, I told him that was too far to drive just to get laid. 
 But then he said it wasn’t just about that… we could hang out, go out 
 to dinner, and stay the night together. That was what sealed the deal. The
 overnight. You know what a sucker I am.\n\nSo I drove away to meet him on 
 Sunday night and spent the night in a hotel with him. I know he was there 
 for work. I know it wasn’t a fun trip. But for just a brief time, I felt
 important to him. It made me hope. And hope, as we all know, is the 
 devil.\n\n\nWe had one last dinner before I headed home yesterday and 
 while we were sitting in a booth in a nice civilized restaurant, we had 
 the most serious conversation we’ve ever had face to face. Mr. Big told 
 me he never wanted to get married. Ever. Because there was no benefit for 
 him. That was bad dear friends, let me tell you. But then it got worse. 
 Then he kept saying that “if” he met the right woman… or 
 “someday” when he meets someone he’d consider settling down with… 
 and it didn’t matter what came after that. It just didn’t matter. 
 Because all I heard was that it wasn’t me. It would never be me. He 
 already knew I wasn’t the one. I was written off, written out, and done.
 There was no hope.\n\nI nearly burst into tears in the restaurant right 
 then and there. I tried looking away, staring at the ceiling, 
 concentrating on my silverware… but nothing helped. I could feel the 
 lump rising up in my throat. And with each statement about what might 
 happen if he ever meets the right gal, my throat tightened up a bit more. 
 Mr. Big thought it was all about the marriage thing. But I couldn’t even
 comprehend that anymore. All I could hear is that I would never be the 
 one.\n\nI finally had to stop him. I looked him in the eye, and I know he 
 saw all the tears I was refusing to shed. And I told him that is we 
 didn’t change the subject immediately I was going to have a very female 
 moment in the middle of our dinner. He blinked, and promptly changed the 
 subject. I blinked and stopped threatening to cry. We moved on.\n\nThe 
 drive home was bad. It was awful on top of horrible actually. For the 
 first several miles I cried over what had been said. I wept hot tears 
 because the maybe I’d been holding on to was nothing after all. I tried 
 to steady my breathing as Mr. Big let me follow him to the freeway to get 
 me back safely. I tried to hold on. I started sobbing as soon as he turned
 back to the hotel.\n\nA few miles later I got it under control. Then I 
 looked at the road. This was the same road that I drove back in college 
 when I was going home after visiting the man who would be my first 
 husband. It was the same road I had cried down so many times as we we were
 separated by circumstance. It was the same road that had put distance 
 between us and broken my heart so many years ago. The exit names were all 
 places I had known. Some of them were places I had lived.\n\nSo I cried 
 again. I cried for what my life is and I cried for what it will never be. 
 I cried for all of the dreams that I’ve lost over the years. I mourned 
 the life I always dreamed of. I cried over what I have instead. I sobbed 
 and wept. And my heart broke again driving down that road, just like it 
 did all those years ago.\n\nLater that night Mr. Big texted to make sure I
 got home okay, and to ask about that conversation. To see if I was 
 alright. To acknowledge that I hadn’t taken it well. And so I explained.
 I explained that while the theory on marriage rubbed me wrong, hearing him
 tell me that it would never be me. Not ever. That was what did it. We 
 stumbled around awkwardly in the conversation for a while. He didn’t 
 understand what I needed. And for once, I found myself incapable of 
 explaining. Words failed me. But I just needed… I needed so badly. I was
 so tired, and it was so late. And all I wanted was to have part of that 
 aching need fulfilled. Something to hold on to. Some reason to believe it 
 wasn’t all the mess it seemed to be. So I asked. I asked if he thought 
 we might ever be more than we are now.\n\nHe said yes. \nSource: 
 https://forgecc.org/?HeSaidYes
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